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In my last article, I had mentioned about the “Karma” and that the reason why we all come to this world is to make energy cleaning.

Today, I will explain about the definition of the karmic relations which is the most important part and about the karmic cleaning.

The real reason of your incarnation is the energy cleaning.

Energy cleaning means to send the energy needs to be changed to the heart chakra and make it positive. For this to happen, we sometimes need negativity in our lives. Since human body blocks diverting negativity towards it, it uses the relations as tools when it requires living it. These relations are the processes that you have with the people in your life including your children.

“Then how can I understand which of my relation is karmic relation?”

The most fundamental feature for understanding your karmic relations is:

“If there is chaos and conflict in your relation, that relation is karmic.”

There are many steps for cleaning your karma.

The first thing you need to do is to determine you karmic triggers. For determining these, primarily focus on your relation that brings you emotional pain. These can be your children, mother-father, friends and even your pets. These are your karmic relations. After having made the determination process in detail, you need to spend some time on finding out what makes you feel uncomfortable at these relations. This can be and action, a belief or behaviours. Sometimes the characteristics disturb you. There may be various triggers therefore I recommend you to spend long time on this subject.

When you find the triggers, write own the emotions that these bring to you to your notebook. Now you reached your karmic buttons. These buttons are the main points that you have placed for karmic cleaning. Please don’t be surprised but you are the one that placed these buttons to your body and make the souls that love you very much, push these buttons and perform karmic cleaning. Without your permission, none of these would happen. Therefore the ones, who challenge you most in your life and sometimes make you go crazy, are the contracted assistants of yours. Thank god that they exist and make you live these experiences. They also purely know what you feel with their high level of memory even if you think that you achieve to hide your negativity during these experiences. In other words your karmic tie will not last until you say that you have made these cleaning and completely passed through this process.

After finding your karmic triggers and buttons, it is time to find out which energies of yours are connected to these. Ask yourself the questions of;

“What do I feel when the button is pushed?

Am I getting angry?

Do I find myself outstanding?

Do I feel like a victim?

“ Do I feel fear or pain?” one by one and determine what you feel. Then write these to a notebook. We don’t have the intention to cheat ourselves. Performing these with great openness and honesty is just for getting rid of our loads.

After these heavy processes, you gained the necessary information.  I said heavy because I know from my experiences that the most challenging situation for a person is to face with itself or its emotions. Moreover there are some people who do not even deal with this subject just for not facing with difficulties.

The next step is to clean these energies and no longer let them affect you. That’s it. Please don’t construe this energy cleaning word as removing your relations or saying to other party not to push your button. This is escape from your karmic duties. You cannot escape from these. An energy tie with the same model and type will enter your life.

If we won’t hide or escape, then how are we going to clean these energies? Please read all my words by thinking and internalizing.

Instead of fighting with this emotion, riding for all, pretending that it is not there; let this energy to pass through you. Let the emotions thoroughly surrounds you and go and you just let these happen with full of peace and calm.”


The words which I wrote easily in this paragraph may be very difficult sometimes even they seem that very easy. You may not achieve at first. Please don’t worry. Mostly, some part of you may not want this to happen, may get use to feel these emotions and moreover you may like seeing you as victim, outstanding, pity and etc. More, you may resist like a child whose toy has been taken. Don’t give up against failures. Each failure brings you closer to the success.

“ I have done these, now what will happen ?”

From now on, when you face with that person or situation, it will not affect you anymore and besides you will not face with that kind of events.

A very huge feeling of freedom isn’t it.

In my opinion, it worth trying.

The taste of being the architect of your life, holding the power and removing from the ties, is not changed with anything.

Be in love

Erkan Sarıyıldız.


There are some people in our lives that exist just for causing us problems continuously. They put lock over lock on our freedom.

There are events that never leave us. Find us wherever we go and emerge under every cover.

You say that:

“Why don’t these events and people leave me?”

These are the determinants of the reasons of your existence in world life and the indicators of your emotions that you need to change.

I am talking about the most vital rules among the universal laws which is the “Karma”.

I want to share an illation with you which had disappointed me very much when I was first aware of it.

We are all born for working as the cleaners of the cosmic pollution formed.

“Am I actually a cleaner? The reason why I am at world is only for cleaning?”

The idea that the purpose of our holy life is cleaning may be humiliating and unfair. We really should not take the life that simple. The main reason why we are here is to “experience” . For cleaning from the negative loads which mob our soul like an incubus, we process the reasons of formation of these loads and create experiences for eliminating them. The main objective in all our actions is to process the experiences brought by this action and transmit this gift to our high conscious as energy. We have all determined our “contract” and contract assistants” which I have always mentioned, before we came here. We created scenarios suitable for our karmic loads that we need to clean and were born to the suitable time period. And we lost who we are on the moment that we were born in order to duly perform our duties.

“Would we have forgotten?”

This question has come to my mind hundreds of time.

Think about a creation having unlimited powers and ability; can you force it to spend a tough process by compressing it into a body and taking its abilities without make him forget?

For this reason it should be made forgotten.

We started to work out for fulfilling the requirement of our karmic load in carnal amnesia. While those assistant whom we made agreement make us experience all kinds of difficulties, neither they are aware of this duty, nor we are aware that we have given this task to them voluntarily.

Have a look at your life. Which events and people challenge you most?

Which emotions imprison and stultify you?

Make a list of these. When you examine them one by one, you’ll see a list which is not that long. And generally the subjects which are wanted you to see but you ignore to see will be under few headings.

This is your “Karmic List.”

When you look at the life from a linear logic perspective after exiting from a dramatic environment and “I’m the victim of life” psychology, the memories containing the same energy patterns which are generally experienced  dozens of times will remain.

The reason why these events are repeated dozens of times is our passing to the awareness and not understanding the thing that we should understand. In other words, we are the reasons why our lives become tragedies of disasters. If you got this at first, you would get rid of that load once instead of hard and painful experiences. Then you would squeezed dozens of cleaning to a single life and enjoy the life.

It is exactly the time for examining your life part by part after putting the that’s life and it’s inevitable logic apart.

I am giving you homework.

Make a list of the events that challenge you and enter to your life again and again.

Make a list of the people that make you live different and challenging experiences.

I will continue giving detailed information n about how the karmic cleaning is made, in a series of articles.

Let’s work for making your life more effective.

Be in love

Erkan Sarıyıldız.

We all live a holy essence, a world experience within ourselves. Even our essences are connected to each other and within the same divinity; we are all here to deal with different subjects because of our carnal roles. As the result of these matters, we internalize the events as far as our filters of perceptions permit due to the life experiences and mental development differences. Therefore there isn’t only one“true”. We all have our trues and moreover a universe that we create. We all live in a world that we create. Probably, the biggest lie is to say” What I say is the truest.” If there are billions of people, then there are millions of true. One of the saying of our ancestors suits very well: “The beauty is in the eye of the looking one” Because the projection of what we see to our inside is proportional with our perception and point of view.

We all have a personal path of life. Everyone experiences a process accompanied with living principles gained. These principles are also determined differently with the internal wisdom of everyone. I’d like to emphasize a few subject for living a more beautiful and effective life and shift into a dimension full of awareness. You may say that,” what happened to the fact that there isn’t one true. Yes, you are right, these are the results of my observations and readings but I tried to determine by removing my personal filters as much as I could.

This kind of pill like information in small doses sometimes lights so many things in one phase such that you can’t demand more.

* Your brain cannot identify the difference between a perfectly designed fictional reality and physical reality. Because there isn’t any difference between these two, actually. Our dreams determine our realities. May not limit our dreams. You cannot get something that you cannot ever dream of.

* Your  brain cannot know the difference between what you want and what you don’t. It only knows what you focus. What you focus on the other hand changes your life. If you focus on what you don’t have, you will have the less. If focus on what you don’t have, you will have more. If you focus on your health, your health will be better. If you focus on your talents, your capacity will expand.

* Try to see everything in the life outside you as part of yourself. This is the best method that saves you from the illusion of separation.

* You hear with your ears but you listen with your brain. You look at with your eyes but only see with your heart.

* Conscious is not in somewhere within the body. You are the conscious that contains the body. The conscious converts what it desires to express into experience with the help of the body.

* There isn’t anything called mistake actually, but only experience.

There isn’t anything called failure, but only disapproval of people

There isn’t anything called success, but approval of people.

*Life does not go on with uncertainty. Uncertainty brings obstacles before you and causes chaos and stress. Make your decision and life starts to flow.

* The truths remain as true although centuries pass on them. We are the workers of time that are trying to understand the truth.

*Being free is not transforming yourself into someone that you should be. The real freedom is to be in love with what you really are.

*Everything that you couldn’t finalize in the past, finalizes NOW. Living in today means to erase the darkness of the past.

* Let the life change you instead our trying to shape the life. Shaping is a result of a surface differentiation but change is a result of deep structuring in conscious.  

*Do not take anything that you face in life as personal. Even someone behaves you badly; this is reaction not to you but as a result of its battle with its internal demons.

*Always be on the side of love and light.

Be in love

Erkan Sarıyıldız.


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